Atzmot Yosef

In Parshat Beshalach we read how Moshe took Atzmot Yosef, the bones of Joseph, with him as Bnei Yisrael left Egypt. In Parshat Vayechi, Yosef himself uses that expression: “Take my Atzmot with you.” Why refer to Yosef’s remains as Atzmot?

The word Atzmot is related to the word Etzem, which means something that is essential, a defining quality. Yosef possessed essential qualities that made him a Tzaddik. These qualities were necessary for Bnei Yisrael to learn from and to take with them from Egypt and carry with them throughout their journeys. What is the Etzem of Yosef? Let me suggest 3 lessons we can learn from Yosef: First, Yosef is a proud Jew. He constantly sees God in his life, even though God never spoke to him directly. He experienced terrible trauma and challenges, yet views them as all part of God’s plan. Wherever he is he doesn’t spend time asking “why me?” Instead he asks “what now? What am I supposed to be doing under these circumstances?” In Potiphar’s house his task was to be a proud Ivri. In jail, his task was to interpret dreams for others. In Pharaoh’s court, it was to ease his family’s transition down to Egypt. People might have said Yosef was an object controlled by others- his brothers his masters, fate. Yet Yosef always found ways to express his freedom even under constraints. Even when we have very little control over what’s happening in our lives or in the world, there is always some degree of choice for us to make, even if it is the choice of how to react. Second, Yosef maintains an optimistic attitude. Yosef was way ahead of the curve when he tells his brothers Pakod Yifkod, that in the future Hashem will remember them and take them out of Egypt. Through this message Yosef provided hope and reassurance at a moment in time that the Jews didn’t even realize that they would need it. Yosef was a dreamer. Dreamers look at the world through aspirational eyes, not limited by what is but always thinking about what can be. In Parshat Vayechi (45:5) Yosef tells his frightened and contrite brothers “Do not be sad”. This was not merely advice directed at his brothers in that moment. Rather this is a mantra, a way of to view life that Yosef is sharing with Bnei Yisrael for all time. Do not be sad due to the ups and downs of life. Being sad saps our energy and does not allow us to focus on the opportunities that exist within each challenge. Yosef is not just forgiving his brothers, he’s providing them with the secret to resilience. Redirect energy you planned on using to worry and bemoan your fate, and channel it towards activities that are impactful and meaningful. Lastly, Yosef is a symbol of Jewish continuity. His personal story is one of survival against the odds. And Chazal expand on this theme. The Midrash describes in great detail how Moshe retrieved Yosef’s bones. According to one opinion his casket was sunk in the Nile River. According to one opinion Moshe pleaded with Yosef for his casket to float to the top. According to a second opinion Moshe threatened Yosef that if he didn’t float up, the Jews would leave Egypt without him. Taken together This Midrashic episode can teach us intergenerational interdependence. Younger generations need the earlier ones to ensure tradition. And the older generations need the younger ones to ensure the Jewish future. During his time in Egypt Yosef was both influenced by the image of his father that prevented him from sin, and took pride in knowing his great-grandchildren were living as Jews.

We know of many righteous men and women throughout Tanach and the Talmud. But only Yosef is honored with the attribution of Hatzaddik, The Righteous One. This unique title is a testament to the three qualities that he possessed: his Jewish pride and faith in Hashem, his optimism, and his appreciation for Jewish tradition and Jewish continuity. By emulating these traits of Yosef we share in the merit of taking Atzmot Yosef with us on our life journeys.