Friday, December 13, 2024

Leaning In to the Loneliness

 Who was the mysterious man with whom Yaakov struggled in Parshat Vaayishlach? Some suggest that Yaakov struggled with himself. Earlier, Yaakov stole Eisav’s blessings of prosperity and wealth. He fled his parents’ home as an innocent and pure yeshiva student. In the intervening years Yaakov experienced a lot and he changed a lot. He is now a wealthy head of a sizeable clan. As he prepares to be confronted by Eisav, Yaakov struggled with himself. Who had he become? Who was he really? Had the blessings he stole from Eisav changed him in ways that made him more like Eisav? The next morning Eisav finally confronted Yaakov. Instead of yelling at him or fighting with him, Eisav suggested that the brothers travel together. Eisav liked what he saw in Yaakov- which was not good news for Yaakov. It seems that Yaakov had good reason to be worried and to struggle with himself the night before the reunion.

Others suggest that Yaakov struggled with “Saro shel Eisav’ Eisav/ Edom’s guardian angel. During this struggle with the angel Yaakov was injured. In the morning, the angel wanted to flee but Yaakov, though injured, held on to his adversary and insisted that the angel bless him before leaving. The angel blessed him, and Yaakov limped away.

According to Hasidic thought, Yaakov brought a limp to Am Yisrael as a result of this incident that has stayed with us throughout time; and will stay with us until Moshiach. What is this limp? According to Kabalah Yaakov was injured in his attribute of Hod, which is majesty. Rav Moshe Weinberger explained that the injury to Am Yisrael’s quality of Hod finds expression in the Jewish People’s feelings of unbearable loneliness. The feeling of Levado (loneliness) that Yaakov felt is the feeling of Levado that we have felt acutely since October 7. The Jewish People feel a terrible sense of isolation, a feeling that we are in a fight against the entire world.

In his article in Commentary Magazine entitled “Splendid Isolation” John Podhoretz wrote that any time the State of Israel has used force in self-defense there have been warnings from “the international community” that Israel’s actions could lead to the Jewish State’s “isolation”. Israel’s isolation at the UN began immediately after Israel’s successful preemptive war in 1967. Ever since there has been a predictable pattern: Israel is attacked, Israel fights back, “the international community” warns Israel not to fight back too much or risk being “isolated”.

The threat of isolation is wearing away at some Jews and causing others to despair. This isolation is unjust, hypocritical and anti-Semitic. But at the end of the day it doesn’t matter because Israel’s isolation is a not a defect, it is a feature. It is a feature of the fact that the Jewish State and the Jewish People have been chosen for a unique mission and therefore must remain alone.

Yaakov’s injury was caused by his insistence that he receive a blessing from the Saro Shel Eisav. This created his limp, but it also created a wound in the majesty of the Jewish People. This injury remains due to our desire to receive the validation of the “international community” Israelis and Jews around the world desperately want the world to validate our claims to “be a free nation in our national homeland” to quote Hatikva.

The Midrash teaches that Just as God is alone in this world, Vanisgav Hashem Levado, so too are we alone in this world, Veyavater Yaakov Levado. Even though there are billions of people on this planet, nevertheless when considering the Jewish People Hashem views the world as if it’s just Him and us. The majesty of the Jewish People is found in our understanding that we don’t depend on other nations; we only depend on Hashem.

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